September 8, 2021:

Her ex considered himself a "bohemian". In reality he was a frat boy with an out of tune guitar.

She was attracted to shiny. She'd promise the moon, go back to her ex, come back to me, lecture on loyalty, betray one and all. She was all about whoever or whatever occupied her field of vision from moment to moment. It was her field of vision, after all.

She was charming, narcissistic, manipulative, self-absorbed. In hindsight, I realize, just another in the long chain of charming narcissists I fell for and failed to understand.